It's one thing to start an exercise or activity program. It's quite another to turn it into a habit so that you're staying active week in and week out. If you're having problems staying with your plan, don't worry. You're not alone.
You'll be glad to hear there are plenty of tips and tricks you can use to get yourself back on track and stay there.
If you haven't started a plan yet to get more active, it may be helpful to read:
Many of the benefits of being active, like having more energy and just feeling better, happen soon after you become more active. But some of the most important health benefits come with being active over time.
- Your reason for wanting to stay active is very important. It won't work if you're doing it because someone else—your spouse, your children, your doctor—wants you to. You have to want it.
- If you started a program to get more active but don't feel like you're making any progress, it may be time to update your goals.
- If you started a program to get more active but are having trouble keeping it going, it may help to figure out what's getting in your way. Then you can figure out how to work around those barriers.
- Keep at it, even if you slip up along the way. It can take months of repetition to form a habit, so every day is a step in the right direction.
How do you stay active?
Update your goals
When you first started increasing your activity, you probably had one or more big goals in mind, like taking a summer hike with your family, walking 30 minutes every day, or lowering your blood pressure. These are long-term goals.
Are those goals the same today, or do you need to change them?
- Are you having trouble meeting those long-term goals? You may need to come up with new short-term goals to help you get there. Short-term goals are things you want to do tomorrow and the day after.
- Did you try to take on too much too fast? That's a reason why some people have trouble making activity a habit. Remember to make your short-term goals small steps. For example, if you want to build up to walking 30 minutes every day, start by walking just 10 minutes—or even 5 minutes—a day, a few days a week. After a week, add 1 or 2 minutes every day, or add another day to your schedule.
- Did you meet your long-term goal and then stop? Good for you for meeting your goal! But now you need a new long-term goal to help you stay active. Even people who have been active for years set new goals to help themselves stay motivated.
Get past those slip-ups
Everyone has slip-ups. But there's a difference between slipping up and giving up. Not exercising for a month after you've been exercising for 6 months is a slip-up. It doesn't mean you're a failure.
When you slip up, don't get mad at yourself or feel guilty. Think of it as a learning experience. Figure out what happened. Why did you stop? Think of ways to get yourself going again. Learn from your slip-ups so that you can keep on toward your goal of staying active.
Here are some common reasons for slip-ups, and some ideas for dealing with them:
- It seems like I never have time.
- If you don't have time for your usual half-hour walk, have a back-up plan to take two 15-minute walks or three 10-minute walks during the day.
- When you don't have time to go to the gym, have a back-up plan to exercise at home or at work instead.
- Think of ways to manage your time better. Ask your family for help with fitting in some time for exercise.
- Tell yourself that you are the type of person who makes time for your own health, including physical activity.
- Look at other people who are active and are about as busy as you. Talk with them about how they fit in physical activity.
- Use a phone app or pedometer to remind you to be more active as you go about your daily routine.
- It's often too hot, too cold, too windy, or too wet for outdoor activities.
- Try a variety of indoor and outdoor activities so that you're ready when the weather turns bad.
- Have a back-up plan to exercise indoors with home equipment or videos. Or walk inside a shopping mall or at a gym.
- Take a class like aerobics or yoga at a gym or community center. They're usually held indoors.
- Going to the gym costs too much.
- Walking is an activity everyone can do without spending money.
- Exercise at home with inexpensive items such as a jump rope, elastic tubing, or a yoga mat. You can use items you already have, such as milk jugs filled with water as weights for arm exercises.
- Take an exercise class at a community center. These classes usually don't cost much.
- I'm too tired most of the time.
- Try to get more rest.
- When you don't have the energy for a half-hour walk, spread 3 shorter 10-minute walks throughout your day. You'll soon regain the energy to walk longer.
- Maybe stress is making you tired. Think of ways to take stress out of your life. And remember that regular physical activity is one of the best ways to relieve stress. For more information, see the topic Stress Management.
- It's too boring.
- Make your exercise routine more interesting by adding some entertainment. Watch a movie while you exercise at home. Or listen to a podcast while you go for a walk or a run.
- Exercise with a partner. Play outdoor games with your family. Walk the dog.
- Try something new—a dance class, exercise class, or gardening.
- It hurts to exercise because of an injury or arthritis.
- If you're having pain when you exercise, try a different activity, such as bicycling or water activities.
- Use chair exercise videos that help you stay active while sitting down.
- It may hurt less if you spread your activity throughout your day.
- Tell your doctor that pain or discomfort is keeping you from staying active.
- Talk to a fitness expert who is trained to help you change your exercise so you can avoid pain.
Current as of: May 5, 2019
Author: Healthwise Staff
Medical Review:E. Gregory Thompson, MD - Internal Medicine & Kathleen Romito, MD - Family Medicine & Adam Husney, MD - Family Medicine & Christine R. Maldonado, PhD - Behavioral Health